Primary objective of an individual physical life on Earth is to learn about how a love is to be. Love itself is a property of God or God Himself. Love is very deep and unlimited. So the learning is endless. When you master a particular level, the next level of task shall reveal naturally.
To love the other, we naturally need the object, and need an environment. Because the life on Earth itself is a task assigned individually to you, the problem you are opposing is your task. So it reveals as an inferiority in your human relationship; that is the one you feel hard or difficult. Naturally good relationship cannot be any problem. On those hard relationship, you are asked whether you love him or her really.
Beside, the implementation of love is not so simple. To be tender is the beginning the love to the other person, but it cannot always mean a love. It depend upon the situation, and how much you really think of him or her seriously. For example, suppose you are raising a child, overindulgence would spoil him and result in loosing his future. However, discipline without love might also damage the heart of him.
To express love involves so many variety, dynamism, deepness, and difficulties. There is no particular goal ultimately. On making a human relationship, so many problems will confront you. On expressing beauty as an art, the throes of creation will be faced. On the leadership, your insight and decision will choose the future. Even a domestic problem, it might be the most suffering and difficult task. But, keep in mind that unnecessary environment or circumstance is not to be given and only the possible task is given to you.
The life in this world is just viewed as a stage where we play a part temporally, and you are evolved by yourself. All the judgment and evaluation are done by yourself after you die and go back to Heaven. Of course, the task itself is made by yourself before you come to be born. So, the life is totally your own matter, in some sense. Once born in to this world, every memory has gone somewhere. So, your life begins as it is. Think of your life carefully. Feel what you really are.
Perceive yourself to obtain the true yourself by yourself.
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